I recognized myself too, Bikewench, on both sides. I know that sometimes I let my "next thought" get in the way of listening to what is being said. I also find it very invalidating when someone stops me before I have finished completing what I am saying, which can often change the meaning altogether.
Learning to communicate, means learning to speak with clarity and to listen without interrupting either with thoughts or words. A good lesson for all of us.
Hugs
Ann