I went to see the movie flight with Denzel, it is about an alcoholic pilot, it sure brought a lot of memories of my X, there was a phrase that stuck in my mind, he said at a meeting that he was finally free!, Are alcoholics really free of this ugly disease? are we really free of its tentacles? It also made me think of step nine, I have moved on since my divorce two years ago and NC with the alcoholic but I keep thinking I need to do a step nine with him, I am not sure if it is appropiate, he has gone nc since our last encounter and not sure how to approach him or should I just let go!!
Maybe is the fact that after one year of NC with my boys, he is going to meet with my oldest one this coming Sunday, I guess my d in l, saw my son crying missing his dad (stepdad) and she contacted my x and he agreed to see him and actualy she said he was very happy to heard from them??
It got my head spinning a little, I hope it goes well for my son.