Thanks to everyone
this is incredible! Okay, I see that I need to talk directly to her and not skirt around. I also feel as though she spoke recently to HER sponsor and was spouting to me the advice her sponsor gave her about where we should meet, etc. I still am not happy about the 'anger' comment, because she is not a therapist and the 4th step is where the rubber of anger and resentments meet the road.
Do you think there is a hard and fast rule in AA as to where a sponsor/sponsee should meet? And if she has other sponsees, would she not know that already?
Thanks, everyone!