Originally Posted by KRA

So I left my abusive, alcoholic gf in June and thought I was getting over her. I went to Al Anon for a bit and stopped going when things got busy at work. I've been thinking about her a lot recently and even missing her. My x and I had some good times, but for the last 6 months to a year, maybe even longer, my x was horrible to me.

I don't know why I am missing her and why now, when I thought I was over her. Is this normal? Does any one have any tips to help me move on?