Hey that was great responses. I am not attending A.A at the moment although am open to it. I however am going to a few S.M.A.R.T meetings but not enough. I am very open to paying for healthcare elsewhere. I just wanted to wait and see what the system here could offer. The problem is I'm pretty strong physically so that is why I have waited so long although I'm now drained mentally/physically/spiritually, and ready to do anything to get this fixed. If this urologist fails then I will move to the next step. I'd be open to anything not shy on trying other countries. I have a family member who owns a house in Phoenix. They suggested I go to the MAYO clinic down there. Does anyone have any insight on that one? Or to Riel any more comparison between prices of Bangkok compared to U.S options. Thanks for any info.