Since I was already copying and pasting this to another thread what's one more:
COLUMN THREE
Self Esteem: I am (or see myself as):______________________________________________ ___.
Pride: No one should see the following being done to me:__________________________________________.
Ambition: What I want but think I am losing is _____________________________________________.
Emotional Security: To feel okay, I need for this person to________________________________________________ ________.
Financial Security: My financial security is threatened in this deal because_______________________________.
Relations by sex: I think women should____________________________________________ _______.
Personal Relations: Those close to me should see that I am___________________________________________.
COLUMN FOUR
Selfish-(I want to keep what I have, so here's how I was selfish)
Self-Seeking-(I also want what others have, so here's where I was seeking for myself rather than giving to another)
Dishonest-(The real truth is that...___________________________________________ __)
deceived her:________________________________________
deceived myself:_______________________________________
Fear-(What I'm really worried about or afraid of that is driving me to behave the way I'm behaving is???)
Insanity-(Here are the things about my behavior and feelings that are really insane in this deal):
__________________________________________________ _________________________