Hi
Im only 10 days in but for me its the same as you - I am have not brought this up with my wife and she has not mentioned it (sure the 17 empty bottles of wine missing and the ones i used to hide kinda give it away though!)
I figure its my own mess that i made and although I know if I need help she will be there for me I have more than put her through enough for last 15 years when she raised our kids single handed as well as looked after a drunk!
on the upside she is smiling at me so know she is proud of me without saying anything!
