It's a tough thing to watch someone you love slowly kill themselves. Take care of yourself & children, it's all you can really do. Good luck with the divorce. I'm in the middle of one with my STBXAW & i'm not sure what is the saddest part, seeing our marriage fail, watching her lose everything, seeing her kill herself, being alone myself, having to start over......... I guess it's all one big crappy tie between em all. Sending support from the Northeast.
OhBoy