Sorry you're going through that. He's the only one who can help himself. The alcohol is such a depressant, I've also slit my wrists while under its influence. I was longing for someone to save me, but in the end, the only person who can save me is myself. I would never want to put that responsibility on another person. It's excruciating I'm sure, but I think you really need to leave him. In my case, my biggest epiphanies came when I was feeling the most abandoned and lonely. Hopefully he'll reach a level where he realizes he CAN stop drinking. Good luck. xx