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I take responsibility for reading the psych report that was left in my car. I don't apologize for it. Frankly, since my AH has consistently denied that there was anything wrong with him, finding this was what I needed - finally - proof of what I'd been saying all along...that he had an Axis II Personality Disorder. I feel redeemed - and I won't apologize for it. I didn't rummage thru his files. He left the report in MY car and then left the state for several days. I have a right to clean out my car and look over whatever is in there to determine what is "trash" and what needs to be saved and put away.
If you're an alcoholic, perhaps you can't really relate to those of us on the "other side" - those of us who have literally been tortured and abused by the antics of the addicts in their lives.