I chose functioning, relationships, and spiritual.
I function much better as a parent and caregiver, and homemaker. I do not hide out from any relationships or obligations.
I volunteer once a week in a reading program and have a service commitment at NA on Fridays. I call my sponsor every day and try to call one other woman in my support group also. Which I do about 4 days a week now. I make the effort to be a good partner. Spiritually I practice prayer and some meditation.
Some days everything just shines and others I get in the way. Ego, self pity, all my bs sometimes keeps me from feeling good. Then it passes.
This is all beneficial to my physical and mental well being.
When I was drinking I was a mess in all areas.