Thank you again so much.
Madeofgkass I asked him this question and he said obviously it seems to be that way.
He said he would never have more than 2 drinks again in a row- can you imagine a more unrealistic goal??
I said he needs to get professional help. He has shown absolutely no empathy or regret for the slurs and nasty comments that he's slung at me over the last 2 days- he knows just how to wound- and that hurts most of all. It is ways about him it seems and if I have a problem he slings it right back at me. Talk about disfunction.
I am in such a low place right now. Feel like im at the end of the road. It is so hard just doing my own thing at home and trying to focus on me and the kids.