I am sorry Lily. Loving an active addict is always very painful. You have a lot to be thankful for though. You are not married to him, do not live together, or have children. Those things can make things more complicated.
Sounds like you are making positive changes, good for you!!
P.S. If he was at the bar drinking, he is not working his recovery. Clean and sober is no mind altering drugs and alcohol is still a drug. Also, drinking brings many addicts back to their DOC.
