I remember when I used to be that way..
Nothing could stop me from going out and getting trashed, no matter what.
I had a friend who quit drinking a few years ago, and I couldn't wrap my brain around it. Because I was still very much inside of my alcoholism..
This year, my birthday came a few days after my 6 month sobriety anniversary.
I went out to dinner with 18 people, and as my friend from AA pointed out, only 3 of us weren't drinking.
I guess I didn't notice.. But they did end up going out together after I went home.
Tonight, my friend said she didn't invite my AA friend to her party because there would be drinking there.. I told her that my friend would gladly make her own decision as to whether or not she felt comfortable..
I think you not drinking shines a light on how dumb people look when they are..
I know I used to be VERY concerned when people weren't drinking, or even as heavily as I was..
So I made sure to weed out all the people that couldn't "hang".
After a few years, I only associated with alcoholics.
Either way, your roommate sounds like a jerk.
Maybe it's time to find new friends?