Funny thing sober sometimes you can be almost sane
In the grocery line this little old lady with half the items I had was behind me and I asked her to go ahead. Then this guy behind me with twice the items and half the age I had said can I go ahead too? I said no no and he says I was a vet and I said join the crowd but behind me. Some people I can be peaceful but not passive. That is a thing really for me to learn in recovery.