Mine will only take the kids when it is "good" for him too. I don't care, more kid time for me, it's his loss.
He does not co-parent, he isn't interested. He blah blah blahs like like used to when he lived here, but it's all just blah blah blah. The actions never match the words.
He does not pay child support. If he has still paid nothing by this time next week the state will be garnisheeing his wages. He blah blah blahed to me that that was impossible as it would take a court order which I am incapable of getting. Little does he know that the state child support agency doesn't need a court order, it is the law, they will just take the money and send it to me.
What I think I am saying is that he is still all blah blah drunklish blah blah drunky pothead blah. NONE of his actions EVER match the blah - same as it ever was..
That's my experience.