Maybe I missed something...but why would the kids need to leave their school? I understand not being able to afford the house without his income...but couldn't you possibly find another place still in that school district? Even an apartment. Yes, it's not what they (and you) are used to, however they could stay in their school, and a home is a home as long as those in it love each other and are happy. My 11 year old said something after my XABF moved out that shocked me...she said that maybe we would have calm in the house...as long as you stay strong and ok they will adjust to the changes.