i am so angry that my mother-in law is blaming me for his drinking!! he has not lived in my household for several months and has been staying with her. i can not believe she has the nerve to put the blame on anyone but him! it is his choice not mine that he drinks. i am the one who gets all the bills and may lose my home if we get sued! that is her grandkids home and she just wants to save her son! she claims she can fix him. i am so worried her heart break is going to be at her grandkids future disappointment. i am not going to argue with her but it is so hard to keep my mouth shut and not tell her that he is the only one who can fix himself. her co-dependency is a issue not mine. i now have to remove myself and kids for her temper and fear! i can not make my mother in law have a different thought process on alcohol put it would be nice not to be blame for someone else's choices in life. thanks for for the kind thoughts and i will keep reading.