((COD))
This is tough stuff & a horrid environment for you and your son ~
My only suggestion and question is to take a good hard look at this journal you have of the events and actions of your wife ~
Now pretend this person was the Administrator of your son's day care ~ not related to your son ~ just a paid person responsible for supervision of your son ~
would you allow this person acting this way to have so much time around your precious child?
Just from my e, s, & h ~ because a person is a parent it does not allow them access and the right to be around their children ~ sometimes due to this awful disease ~ it is not the healthiest thing for the child to be around their parent.
I know that I did NOT do everything in my power to protect my daughters from this disease of alcoholism and addiction ~ they were much older than your son - but they suffered greatly mentally ~ They still bear the scars of those harmful years ~
Please continue your path of healing for you and for you son ~ may your HP guide you as to what is healthiest for both of you -
PINK HUGS,