I find something to be grateful for every day, even if it is a super-craptastic day, at the end of it, i'm sober and tomorrow will be better.
I log onto SR and other forums almost every day and connect with others...I'm happy doing normal chores, i'm thrilled that the dark cloud of depression lifted. I exercise almost every day. And I try to do one unexpected nice thing for someone else.
when i give it comes back 10fold.