Good job not contacting her! I know it must have been hard, but it is the best thing you could have done for yourself.
She never liked to show her private life and now it is all over the place? Sounds like
she is trying to prove to the world and to you that her life is "perfect" now. Which,
anyone that feels the need to prove their life is perfect that means there life is FAR from
it. Birthdays are a REALLY hard time to stay clean, and now she just spent a birthday
with a guy that is newly sober. hmmmm.... I don't think the outcome was too great.
Stay strong,
Maylie