Thanks TakingCharge999,
I should clarify that line.
She was not telling me that she will think of you more in the positive sense to somehow give me hope that I am still in her mind.
The counselor was trying to explain to me how the narcissistic mind of the alcoholic works.
That she will be expecting to hear from me.
Feeding her ego has always been my job.
That the alcoholic thinks more about what you don't do for them rather then appreciate what you do.
She was telling me to stop worrying about her feelings, and start taking care of my own.