Originally Posted by
soexhausted 
Thanks Sassydog,
I think the worst part of it is me worrying about her hurt feelings knowing that she is not in the least bit thinking about mine.
If she is truly working her recovery, which we all should hope for, regardless of what an evil person she may be, she will be thinking about you around step 4.
And that is okay. When she gets to step 9, let her make her amends, and be done. It will help both of you recover. Honestly. I have been there too, years ago. But that does not mean that you have to deal with her either in the present or the future.
That is, IF she is working her recovery.
You will get through this, one day at a time.