I feel your pain... I've watch my husband do all kinds of ways to stop, he done treatment he went cold turkey alot... none of it's easy... but as they teach us we must take care of ourselfs and only they can fix themselfs. if you don't love her enoug to stay and support her then leave... sometimes them lossing someone could be there wake up call... i know my husband can care less if i had left him but instead he left me so he can sneak his drinks and not have to sfop... lots of prayes is needed i wish you the best of luck.