Originally Posted by
ZiggyB 
Yeah I broke NC with mine recently too... I have no idea how much he is drinking now but he was still the same angry, blaming, sarcastic as* -- always refused to go to therapy, continues to be an emotional mess as far as I know. Whatever, I am so much more SANE now than I was 6 months ago.
Sad heart. I agree with you on everything you have just said. Today I decided enough is enough. For years I thought if my H stopped drinking we would be ok but then he tried and it has unmasked the major problems in his mind. For years the drink had covered this up. Mental health is so cruel lack of understanding is a major problem for this hidden disability. But I know I can't cure him any more as he is too unstable.