i seem to already know the solution to my problems but for some reason still search for alternatives. i don't have a sponsor. i have sober friends and people at meetings that im close with but they are mostly all males. i go to step meetings and learn in depth about the steps. i work 1-3. i've completed a short 4th step while in treatment but didn't seem to hold the value that it should have (seemingly an incomplete 4th step) i know getting a sponsor would help but what do i do in the meantime