Hi: Just a quick observation from the othe "P.O.V.", as it were. I am a recovering alcoholic, just over 6 months now. One thing I can say with some certainty is that I would not have any sober time at all if my B.S. had continued to work, especially those shovelfuls I directed at myself. In my opinion, you not only did and are doing the right thing, you are likely giving him his only chance to recover. Good luck, and keep up the good work---Rick