Originally Posted by
tomsteve 
when you read more posts, you may want to try it with a different pair of glasses. there are very few( if any) moderation drinkers here. after all, this is sober recovery.
That wasn't my point. I read tons of posts from folks who want to be "normies" or trying tapering, or telling themselves just one. almost everybody concludes that it doesn't work....i am always surprised though that the starting thought is be normal. Never once till this day have I dreamnt about enjoying a nice glass of wine. 100% of my thoughts start at minimum a bottle and up. i just can't believe somebody desires just one (suspending the reality of whether that is achievable)