I can only speak for myself,I wantedto stay sober more than I wanted to drink.
A simple choice for me.
My Mother was an Alcoholic and died at an early age,she developed a wet brain.
Many times I tried to persuade her to try sobriety,she didnt want it.
Today I accept I am powerless over what other people choose to do.
Glad your choice lionhearted is to live sober.