Kc636....my best advice to you is to educate yourself on addiction. Read about this disease and research the odds of a successful recovery for yourself. You are the only one who can decide what is best for you, but be real about the ride you are in for. Read the stories from the wives and girlfriends of addicts on this site. When I do, I thank God for giving me a loving, wonderful husband. My brother is the addict in my life. That makes it somewhat easier for me to walk away if I have to. Understand that there is a chance that your path might lead you to the same position that many of these women are in today. You are so young. Don't make this decision lightly.