Originally Posted by
dollydo 
"Maybe this man will sort himself out n get clean n she wont be wasting her life on an addict. Maybe some ppl who say things like this may need to work on their issues? "
Maybe...but the odds are not in her favor. Maybe some of us here have some experience in the world of codependency, enabling and addiction, me, I've been working on my issues for 65 years, addiction has eaten up my family and almost destroyed me.
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10% are lousy odds.I have researched it high and low,
but it ALWAYS seems to get back to 10%
(unless someone is trying to sell you a $70K rehab!)
70% made it out of the WTC towers on 9/11.The
unfortunate people above the impact on tower 1
were not so lucky.....God bless their souls.
Odds matter.
65 years,dollydo?
I pay homage to your wisdom.