i can feel your pain. you are also probley feeling used. let him go. you have a choice to be happy or sad. he is not worth this..give it up. i do not really know your story but he can not b worth this. feel sorry for the girl, be glad it is not you anymore. not long ago some one told me "the grass is not greener or the other side & if it is it is because of all the bull sh*t."