So far his recovery had seemed very easy. Giving up drinking, going to the meetings, finding a sponsor he liked -- all clicked beautifully. But it could be harder than he's letting on -- or even harder than he realizes. He has stalled on his fourth step - the personali inventory (he is still going to meetings, but he's been putting off the work). He might not really be ready to begin confronting the more difficult/ emotional stuff.
I am working on me -- I am in therapy (cannot wait for this week's session -- my therapist really gets it!) and Above all, I'm a big believer in prayer. I have tried alanon, but never found a fit. Also, my schedule really is full with two jobs and freelance work.
Right now I feel OK. I have not heard from him today -- I am not calling him. I am going to lunch with my best friend whose husband is an RA.