Originally Posted by
crazybabie 
You don't want to make it easy on him addicts have no reason to stop when we cushion them and enable them. I know as a mother you feel you should but we can love our kids to death.
Thank you all so much for the replies. It is so helpful to know that I am not alone.
crazybabie, I appreciate your sincerity but I'm confused. I told my son that I would not support his behavior in any way, but would support his efforts to stop. Should I not try to do everything I can to help make the withdrawal process easier? I want this part of his life to be as appealing as possible to show a contrast to the way he was living. Is that wrong? Is there a better approach? I just have no idea what I am doing and I am terrified of doing something "wrong"
I have read enough to know that this is his devil but if he's trying to fight it, I want to be there for him.