interrupted: its feels that I am codependent from reading things that make me feel that I've acted in a specific way. My mom always says that even as a child I wanted to help everybody. I know I was putting him ahead of myself, and my family noticed it too even the ones who didn't know at the time what was happening. When I had told them everything just clicked. But its strange at the same time because my ex would always tell me I was selfish....
I really want to be able to overcome having these tendencies in future relationships I don't want to be that person. So I'm hoping it is something that I can overcome. And it really does help knowing that people are going through the same things.
crazybabie: Thanks for your reply. I'm so wishing the grieving process would just end
