Originally Posted by
Impurrfect 
((StarCat)) - Sometimes relationships go sour, for whatever reason. Sounds to me like she is living her life through you. I've been on both sides of that equation and neither are good.
I agree with ((LTL)) - boundaries are a good thing. If she gets stalker-ish, call the cops.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy
Oooh, yeah, about that, I do hope it doesn't go that direction, but I have a "No Contact" letter drafted in case she does. If done properly (notarized, mailed with return receipt) it can help me prove in court that I asked her firmly to stop contacting me, and then if she continues past the receipt of the letter then I could press charges easier.
I searched the internet for something like that for a different reason, and while I haven't ever needed it for that other purpose, I'm so glad I held on to it!