I feel so angry with ny AH right now I really just want to confront hme but I am trying to stay away. During nearly 3 decades of drinking he was abusive to me in every way. We split up a few times and one of those times I was in another relationship which did not last and which I told him about ( he had moved out, got his own place and said he was never coming back). When we finally split up I told him I was not coming back unless he stopped drinking and was spending a lot of time with somebody else.
Up till this point he has only been cold and heartless to me and not our kids. But now he has started to treat one of them in the same way. It makes me so sad and ashamed of him. His 'reason'/ excuse for this behaviour is that I am a serial adulterer and that is why we are where we are now! I am speechless. Does he really believe this, can alcoholism make you re-write history?
