Has anyone here ever been Step Nined?
I'm sure it's years away for me, if it ever happens at all, but I had the terrible thought that I won't ever see my ex again until he tries to apologize for ruining my life.
I've heard either cute anecdotes from people who were Step Nined by RAs who they only vaguely remembered from high school, or one terrible SR thread in which the poster was ambushed at the airport and hastily "amended at" and was left feeling even more violated than ever...
Does Step Nine ever end well for the people who have been truly hurt? I understand the need for the RA to clean their side of street, but does the recipient ever get solace too? Or is it just more torment? I'm pretty good at Google, but I've yet to find a single positive story... Does anyone here have one?