Dear BlueSkies, I am not surprised that your husband is angry. It is the natural first reaction, anyway. I'm guessing that you are, also, but you have already learned so much about the disease that you can more easily put it into a different context.
Hopefully, you and hubby can talk---after the dust has settled, of course. My advice is to try to avoid getting "split" with your spouse. If you stay steady on your course and exercise a LOT of patience, he may take your lead. This is such a challenge for the whole family. You can see why they call it a "family disease".
Keep your faith. You are doing a masterful job.
dandylion