Oh wow, needed to see this!
I haven't officially gone no-contact, but I am definitely decreasing contact.
I've been struggling all day with not contacting my AH; in the past 45 minutes he's called my cell 3 times, but left only a cryptic message. The codie in me is itching to call him back. The makes-better-choices me is telling me "cryptic message = drinking!" and "you know you are addicted to him, so go read SR and let this feeling wash over you and don't pick up the phone."
Argh! It's arghravating!
Thanks for posting this thread.