OmG LMN, AH would do that too. We would all get in the car and then he would diddle around I would call it. He would have to get in and out of the car about three times to go back in the house and get or do this or that.
Other way he would waste my time, would be to tell me let's go to bed. I would be tired and go get ready, lay down, wait with tv on. He would not be up an hour later, so I would call down and he would be annoyed, he's coming. Another hour, same thing. I end up falling asleep and he either wakes me for sex late and I'm too tired, or irritated. Or he berates me later for getting out of sex by falling asleep, then insinuates that I am frigid and has even asked if I was molested as a child (no). All of this made me feel abnormal and undesirable.