I am always late and even when I know my husband is waiting in the car, I still find another task to do. (Like throwing a load of laundry in. lol) On some level, I have always known I liked to make him wait. I thought it was more of a passive/aggressive act. I defended my actions in my head, because I resented always being the responsible one - making sure the air is turned up, the doors are locked, etc. I just wanted him to dare complain. lol
In fact, I see other things on this list that apply to me as well. A controlling, codependent, what are the odds????