I had posted this already on my own thread. But it is so apropos to this thread that I had to repost. (Hope that is OK)
My constantly changing status XAGF called me today to let me know her sponsor thinks we we need time apart. Call it quits for at least the time being.
She was even reading off notes given to her by her sponsor.
Now I know that us not seeing each other is probably for the best. I understand that her sponsor's only concern is her sobriety, but it still ticks me off.
I have been with this girl for over 8 years. Seen her through every up and down scenario. Including diving into the water after her when she was trying to drown herself.
I literally carried her into detox.
And now a woman she barely knows who only has 2 years sobriety and took her on as her first sponsee is directing every aspect of our relationship.
Am I feeling just a little bitter? I think so.