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Please note that it was the
rehab counselor that gave him the rule. The rehab counselor not AA, although his group or his sponsor may have told him the same thing too!
So the 90 meetings in 90 days, in this instance, IS part of the program the rehab center gave him. He can choose to disregard "bits and pieces" at his own risk. Could it affect his progress in his IOP now? Most likely so. He might check his health insurance plan too.