Originally Posted by
Titanic 
The NA "bible" also states: "A meeting a day for at least the first ninety days of recovery is a good idea." Page 53.
Yes, he should be doing "90 meetings in 90 days" and he can do that by catching more than one meeting a day too.
Originally Posted by Titanic
Regardless of that, let him worry about his recovery with his sponsor. You stay on your side of the recovery street.
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Should" is an expectation. A "
good idea" is a suggestion.
If folks are staying on their own side of the recovery street, then they do not suggest or expect anything from the other, but only observe and then decide how they are going to act. That's called detachment along with setting and carrying out boundaries.
