Originally Posted by incitingsilence

I don’t need to be needed anymore. But I do remember those days. And yes the things we allow to be distraction so we don’t have to look at ourselves. I really was so good at blaming and focusing on how sick he was, like I was healthy in any way.

Now I do what I wish to, I can say no without hesitation or any feeling of guilt, and I can say yes knowing it isn’t for any selfish reason or that I might get something out it. I have been lucky I found a way to keep balance and to not lose my compassion and passion in the mix. I think this is the key finding a balance within. Also trusting ourselves and being open/willing to learning, no matter the source, even from the addicts in our lives.

Today what I get out of all the hard work is more chances….such endless possibilities.