Anyway, my point is that trauma can bring about all kinds of physical manifestations in the body and many of them are confusing to US, the ones who are suffering through it as well as to those around us. Of course, this is just my experience and I may be totally off base, LOL, so take what I shared with a grain of salt and hopefully others will come on here with better advice![/QUOTE]
yes the above, of course occurred to me- except that this man has an ENORMOUS sexual history ...well beyond the wildest dreams of most men.....due to a career where a lots of sex n drugs was always on tap in fact de rigeur... tho my clear impression on first sexual contact was a feeling he had never experienced any ummm...kind of 'soul' in lovemaking. one would wonder how but that was what i felt/ saw. maybe had never had sex without doc?