I have to echo Ms.PinkAcres. My seperation was going very amicably until the divorce papers were actually served. Now it is like WWIII. Protect yourself and get advice from a lawyer. There are constantly facets I would not have even thought of cropping up. And I have the added bonus of a STXAH who was a police officer with only 4 years left until retirement and now because he doesn't want to pay me, is going out on a medical leave of some sort. He has now not gotten a check for two months. I am not even seeing his half of the daycare costs let alone anything else. And this is from a man who has worked since he was 16. I never, never, never saw this coming.
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