Thank you for the replies. Since I wrote this, I left and stayed at a friends house 10-4 and 10-5 and last night, her folks came to get her as she had been drinking the whole time i was gone. Also, I found out she was visiting an ex rather than attending a couple of lectures at the rehab place last week. She says it was innocent. I have confirmation this is correct, but not sure if the intentions were innocent and not just the result. I came home last night as she was away. She texted saying how much she loved me and such. I told her via text today that she needed to figure out if she wanted to be a drinker or not. She said she wanted to be with me. I said I knew that, but she needed to figure out for HER whether or not she wanted to be a drinker, not for me or anyone else or even for us, just for her. She said she knew I was right. We'll see how things go. Thanks, again, for the support and advice.