I think it's great you're putting the focus on the positive and appreciating your family and the chance to be with them. That attitude will get you really far in this recovery process.
On the other hand, it sounds like you could use a break from the routine of doing it all. Could your husband skip hunting and let you go away with your friends (or by yourself) for a change? No one should have to shoulder the majority of the child rearing and housekeeping if they have a partner!